From: hgoof@aol.com (HGoof) Subject: ASSC AFTSD - What should I have done? Date: 2 Dec 1997 19:37:12 GMT I don't think I've posted since the last AFTSD. There are a lot of reasons why ... some being too much work, not enough money, and several failed attempts to stop going to strip clubs and stop reading ASSC. I guess the drive for beautiful women and laps is too strong. I've read ASSC maybe once month to keep in touch and to see if any So. Cal. Convoys were planned. Below, I describe an incident were I received a propostion in a club recently and I would like some comment from others on what action I should have taked. But first a little bit on clubs I've been visiting. I've been going to Fritz Too in Anaheim, Tropical Lei in Upland, and some of the City of Industry clubs. Tropical Lei is still tops in my list for Laps and Fritz for beautiful wimmin's both are highly recommended. The City of Industry clubs have had many ups and downs - in both good looking dancers and in mileage, I guess its because I don't have any favorites in those clubs and don't go there often. We've seen the opening of Spearmint Rhino and a new Ecstasy. I haven't been to Ecstasy yet, but the Spearmint Rhino seems to be going for a higher class atmosphere than I like and my lap mileage hasn't been great there despite what others have experienced. Quality at the other clubs in the area has dropped sharply in the last year. There is one club I've been going too where mileage has increased in intensity so much, I feel "I have crossed to the dark side". I think my favorite noticed longer intervals between my visits and decided to let out a little line and reel me in some. An it worked! I am hooked lately I've gone only to see her. I know the relationship is based on money, but she will always undercount (thats right --undercount) the number of dances when we are done! I try to go when I think she will not be busy so we can take our time and talk. Even if she is busy she will spend a lot of time talking with me before the subject of dances comes up. She amazes as she remembers details of our previous conversations even if several months have passed. We've talked about meeting outside the club for lunch or a cup of coffee, but I've left it in her court by giving her my her my number. So far she hasn't called, I'm a little disappointed but not too much, I guess I have gone completely to the dark side. I am one of the many ASSCers who have no interest in screwing around, though I've changed to where I like an intense lap, if you know what I mean. I formerly had no interest in too hot of a lapping. I am being discrete because I don't want my favorite to get into any trouble, but WOW! are her dances HOT! During my last visit (last month), I had a something new happen while waiting for my favorite. During my wait, several dancers came by to sit and talk. I always let them know I am waiting for someone and sometimes they stay, sometimes they leave. Several were very friendly with good conversation and almost had me give in, so I'd tip them for good being good company (and keep them in mind for future laps). One dancer though had a different approach. She whispered in my ear and asked if I would like to have my dick sucked! I didn't think I heard her correctly so I asked her again and she said it again! Now looking back, if I were her I would n't repeat that for fear of a bust, but she was pretty brazen about it. I don't think I'd ever seen her before so she couldn't have known me, though maybe because of the dancer I was waiting for she knew I was looking for more than just an ordindary lap dance. I told her I wasn't interested and watched her as she went to the next few guys and whispered in their ears. Finally one guy got up and went for a dance with her. I got some dancer company at that time and didn't watch to see what might happen with them, but he came back one, maybe two dances later with no noticeable change to suggest something extraordinary went on. I was interested to know, but not so much that I would take her up on it. My interest later turned to concern. I don't want that kind of proposition to ruin a good thing. I don't want busts going on in there toning down my dances with my favorite! I don't want to snitch, since I am no choir boy, but I don't like it! I was tempted to tell my favorite and ask her whether I should tell the other dancer to stop or casually mention it to management. I took the wimp option and did nothing. I am curious, what would others have done? I don't want to have management come down and reduce mileage, I don't want my favorite busted (she be might if the person saw what she does). I guess I just hope this other dancer moves on to the street or a massage parlor. Later